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How to Write a Buddy Statement

Asking someone for a statement is easier when you can tell them exactly what to write. Share this structure with them.

  • A simple structure
  • Which form to use
  • What to leave out
  • Who to ask

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The structure

A Simple Four-Part Structure

  1. Who I am: name, and how and when they know you (same unit, spouse since 2009, coworker for five years).
  2. What I saw: the specific event or symptoms, with approximate dates and places.
  3. What changed: how you were before versus after, if they know.
  4. How it affects you now: what they observe today, like a limp, nightmares, missed work or isolation.
The form

Which Form to Use

Witnesses can use VA Form 21-10210 (Lay/Witness Statement). Your own statement usually goes on VA Form 21-4138 (Statement in Support of Claim). Both include a signed certification that the statement is true.

Keep it credible

What to Leave Out

  • Medical diagnoses (“he has PTSD”). Describe what they saw instead.
  • Guesses or things they only heard about secondhand
  • Exaggeration. Specific and accurate beats dramatic.

Good witnesses include people you served with, a spouse, family, and coworkers. Each sees a different part of the picture.

FAQ

Writing a Buddy Statement: Common Questions

How long should a buddy statement be?

Usually a page or less. Specific details matter more than length.

Should the statement be notarized?

Not usually. The VA forms include a certification that the statement is true, which the writer signs.

Can I write my own statement?

Yes. Veterans typically use VA Form 21-4138 for their own statements about symptoms and events.

How many buddy statements should I submit?

There’s no set number. One or two detailed, credible statements are usually worth more than several vague ones.

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